OH, this must be heaven. But I guess it depends on whose perspective you would be looking at. I am going to go with living with John. Or, would that would be John living with me. We get along pretty good now, and have grown into pretty good friends. If john asks me to do something for him, I will do it. He does an awful lot for me, and probably more than most husbands. He makes dinner and does the grocery shopping. I think we both try to keep our relationship going. We have learned help each other when its necessary and step away when we should.
I really do think its not that bad living with me. I don’t like to argue or start fights. I let John pretty much do what he wants and he knows he can count on me, as I know I can count on him. Actually I think I really am an easy person to live with. I’m not too demanding, I don’t require special attention. I’m just as comfortable being by myself as I am with another person.
lol! Yea.. this one is coming up.. on my list too.. and I'm sitting here.. going .. Hmmm.. ummm.. YIPES! lol. I'm sure, John totally agrees with ya! When folks have been together for a very long time.. ya just know what the other needs or wants.. so, you just do it... no questions asked. It helps to throw a curve in from time to time.. You make dinner.. just for giggles!! lol
ReplyDeleteLiving with me probbly is not as easy as I think it is. lol Hubby is the easy going on...Im the one who, at least once a year, itches for a good argument..but he just wont give it to me. lol We respect one another, help eachother out and are there for one another...we also know when to give eachother thier space (even tho I tend to not wanna do that as much as I should. lol). I have gotten so much better at just being me, not giving a hoot what others think, since I have been with Rick...so thats a good thing. lol He helps me keep my head on when things get rough...he is not an outward stresser...he bottles it up, where as I...well...I let my feelings be known every minute of every day just about. LOL
ReplyDeletehmmm, Cherie, me? make dinner? hmmmmm, I really dont think so. maybe once in a while, but no more than that. I have to eat it too ya know.
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